Gita for life

Comparison & endless wanting

तुलना और इच्छाएँ

When you always want more, or keep comparing yourself to others.

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Bhagavad Gita 2.70 →

आपूर्यमाणमचलप्रतिष्ठं समुद्रमापः प्रविशन्ति यद्वत्। तद्वत्कामा यं प्रविशन्ति सर्वे स शान्तिमाप्नोति न कामकामी॥

He attains peace into whom desires flow as rivers into the ocean, which, though brimming with water, remains ever the same; not he whom desires carry away.

Simple meaning

Krishna compares a wise person to the ocean: rivers keep pouring in, yet the ocean stays calm and full. Peace comes to the one who isn't carried away by every desire, not to one who chases each one.

In real life

Someone who used to buy every new phone learns to enjoy what they have. New launches still come, but they no longer disturb him.

A young professional stops comparing her salary with friends on LinkedIn and finds she's actually content with her growth.

Try this today: Next time you feel a strong urge to buy or compare, wait 48 hours. Notice how much the urge fades.

Bhagavad Gita 2.62 →

ध्यायतो विषयान्पुंसः सङ्गस्तेषूपजायते। सङ्गात् संजायते कामः कामात्क्रोधोऽभिजायते॥

When a person dwells on the objects of sense, they create an attraction for them; this attraction develops into desire, and desire breeds anger.

Simple meaning

Krishna explains how trouble starts: when you keep thinking about something you want, attachment grows; attachment becomes desire; and when desire is blocked, it turns into anger.

In real life

Someone keeps scrolling through a friend's holiday photos, starts wanting the same, and ends up irritated with their own life and family.

A person fixates on getting a promotion. When a colleague gets it instead, the attachment turns into resentment and anger.

Try this today: When you catch yourself replaying a want over and over, change the input: put the phone down or step away for ten minutes.

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English translation by Shri Purohit Swami (1935), public domain. Sanskrit text in the public domain. About Duvidha